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Bedrest

I don't know how I would've reacted to this the first pregnancy. There wasn't much blood- but there was blood none the less.

We didn't pass go,

we didn't collect two hundred dollars.

We went straight to the hospital.

Before, chances are, I would've called to see if they wanted me to come in. This time I didn't bother calling. We did make a slight mistake though. I didn't bother packing a bag or anything because I really thought they'd do an ultrasound and exam to make sure the placenta was well attached and send me home on bed rest for a few days. I was wrong. They did the ultrasound and exam but also decided to keep me overnight. They said it's standard for any patient that experiences bleeding so... Tommy got to drive back up to Bainbridge before driving back down to crash on the pull out bed at the hospital. Besides toiletries we'd also left our dog Louie up there and I'm willing to guess it wouldn't have been a pretty sight to see if we'd left him alone all night.

My blood work has been fine so far though. I asked the lady doing the ultrasound if the placenta was properly attached- she said she wasn't allowed to answer that and a doctor would be examining all the pictures and give us the results so... we're waiting on that but I'm feeling fine. Tired, but fine.

This little baby has been stubborn though. She really didn't want to hold still to be monitored and kept moving around making it hard to get the thirty minute reading of her heartbeat that they wanted. I have to confess- I enjoy all the movement and the readings they got were all normal so the kicks brought smiles to my face.

She also wasn't cooperating during the ultrasound when I asked if she could confirm the gender- lol. That's the least of my concerns though. She's got all the organs she needs and is measuring right on schedule- a few days ahead but right around 2 1/2 lbs.


*** I wrote this before seeing my high risk doctor this morning. He nixed the overnight thing. Instead I'm here for 5-7 days. I'm not sure how I'm going to make arrangements for class... but on the positive side I might catch up on reading everyone else's blogs and knitting plus I've got a book I haven't started to read yet. Today went by quickly. We'll see how the rest of the week goes. I don't care how productive it is as long as this baby keeps kicking and growing safe inside. The doctors seem optimistic that she'll stay put- they haven't started me on steroids yet. This week I'll hit the 28 week mark which greatly increases her servival rate, but as much as I want her in my arms I know she's safest right where she is.

I can't shake the feeling that everything's gonna be ok with this Beanie Baby. We've had people lifting us up in prayer today for which I am so grateful and know that is a large part of the peace I'm feeling.

Hope is good.

Comments

Bree said…
Oh, Rebekah. You don't deserve this. Praying, praying, praying. I have a good feeling she's going to be okay too. Love and hugs.
Franchesca said…
Rebekah, I know it's not the ideal situation, but your outlook on bedrest is awesome. I just want to say that I appreciate (and admire) your positive outlook. I really believe it'll make these next few days go by faster. I am sorry that you have to be there in the first place, but at least you get to see and hear her all day long ;)

When I was on hospital bedrest, they had the monitor constantly spitting out Jenna's heartbeat and my contractions on a white strip of paper... If you are into scrapbooking, you might ask one of the nicer nurses if you can keep some of that :) The nurses kept telling us 'it's against hospital procedures' but then one nurse just let us have it! I got to include it in her scrapbook. Anyway, sorry for the long comment, but if you need an ear, I am here. I teach but only extremely part-time.

xx
AnnaBelle said…
Oh my gosh, this sucks but I'm so glad you are under constant care and that your attitude is so good.

Take care, be unproductive (besides the whole growing a baby thing), and GIVE UPDATES PLEASE!

Thinking of you and your little girl, and your hubby who is doing a lot of driving back and forth to the hospital.
Anonymous said…
Sending extra prayers your way!!!!
Unknown said…
Sending extra prayers! You are right where you need to be right now. If you don't mind I will also ask my church to pray for you during our prayer mass Tuesday. Keep us updated.
Stacey said…
Oh my! I was hoping for a very uneventful pregnancy for you, but it sounds like you are doing well and in good spirits. I am so glad they are keeping a close eye on you and that you've been enjoying baby girl's activity. Hoping you will find good ways to pass the time and that soon you'll have the all-clear to go take it easy at home! Praying for you & baby. Feel free to email if you get bored! :)
Mary said…
Glad that you are sending out the positive vibes. I am praying for you.
Holly said…
This reminds me of my pregnancy w/ my daughter. I had severe bleeding at 26 wks and went to the hospital where they shipped me off to a larger hospital in fear that I was going to deliver. They even gave me the steroid shots. I stayed at the larger hospital for a week on bed rest. I didn't bleed again and they could only guess that it was a placental abruption. I had a feeling the whole time that everything was going to be ok. I dealt w/ preterm labor the remainder of my pregnancy and got regular NSTs but I made it to 40 wks. I have faith that you will get through this!
Dana said…
Oh Rebekah, I was so hoping for a perfect, non-scary pregnancy for you. Sending extra prayers your way!

(((hugs)))
Dana
Jen said…
I was on bedrest for 7 weeks before Cooper was born at 31 weeks...it's weird to say but I kinda miss that time...the quiet time to just lay around and spend quiet time with him. I enjoyed learning his personality and his patterns during the day which still prove to be his ways even today! So, in essence, try to relax and your outlook is great...you won't go crazy if you can keep your outlook good ((hugs)) I know its hard...
Colleen said…
I don't usually leave comments but read all the time. Just wanted you to know that I will be praying for you and your baby.
Angela said…
Blood..how scary! You definitely did the right thing, and thank god they took you seriously and put you in. That shows you have a good dr. :) Praying for you and baby girl!

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